Can dilemmas be sweet?
yes. noticed that when i used to handle yahoo chats and fone talks. the dilemma of who will end conversations first?
it happened when i was in surat. din have a mobile fone. so talking to akka was a shy difficult. so we planned weekend yahoo voice chats. every time for atleast 3 hours.
as we neared the end, i will say bye. and will type bye. she will too. and then i will not sign out immediately. 5 mins will pass. then she will say bye againn . and i will say bye. yet again after 5 mins she will again say bye. this will continue..and then we will finally settle for a fresh round of chatting.
again here comes fone convos. we used to talk real lot before her marriage. like everybody sleeps at ten. we will try to sleep but will end up talking till 12. so scenario changed after her marriage.
and i also got posted out of city. so times changed.
and then when i visit madras, we keep talking and updating 7 times a day and everytime for 30 mins. when we r done with teh convo, we decide to hang up..again bye as usual. i wil say bye and wait for her to cut. and she , the same.. its difficult really deciding who will cut the fone.
finally we do. who does, i m not still sure
now things have changed a bit. does not happen that much. cut fones pretty soon without game theory....but 7 times a day and 30 mins is still there....
i miss the dilemma..however..
dilemmas are interesting after all. its time i had some dilemma in life....
4 comments:
hahaha....ya we all do have those dilemmas.........
I remember when i used to teach at a coaching centre...i always had dilemma calling off the class...everytime i said goodnight one or other of the student used to ask a new doubt or start a new discussion or give a new prespective to the GD we used to have,and again the class starts discussing that new thing :)
now that you have brought it forward, let me tell you something similar which I have felt. I wanted to write a blog on this but this is a better forum for it as it is related to the topic which you have discussed.
Suppose you are walking along a road or a long corridor and you find someone who you know walking towards you from the other end. What do you do? Do you keep smiling and looking at him/her from the beginning like an idiot? Or you bend down and walk like a disgraced person. Or should you look sideways and walk as if you never cared for that person's presence? I have always faced this dilemma.
I take the solution of bending down and walking till I was of 'speakable' range from them. ANd then tell something sounding like 'good morning. how do you do?' and once I pass, heave a sigh of relief and rush ahead at a brisk pace to compensate for the slowing of the journey because of that person.
Varen da varen .... India ku vanthu ... unnoda dilemma ellam thookaren ....
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